Cast the shadow of burden behind us
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> Monday, December 31, 2007
my heart is c-r-a-c-k-i-n-g from the words. I know I am not a perfect daughter but I believe that as a 17 year-old girl, I've done my duties well enough. I dare dare dare say that I've always put my parents as my top priority and hardly go against their wishes however much I disagree with them. I'll keep them company and help out with the chores as much as I could but why is it that when something minor happens, unpleasant words like "why are you so much lousier than other children, you are the worst child ever" have to surface.
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How many 17+ year- old girls or even 20+ (my sis) now are still modern- day Cinderellas and how many of those who are not called home to say goodnight to their parents to put their heart at ease like what I do when I stay out once in a million years. The figures are so much lesser than they imagine please! They are so much stricter than other parents out there, I've no complaints, but how would they feel if I did the same comparison and make such awful remarks! Coming right from the person I love so much! 2008, I hope it'll be a better year.



Happy 2008 my friends

> Thursday, December 27, 2007
Excessive blogging today haha, entries up another day!!!!!!!!!

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AND FINALLY IT'S THE BIG DAY!
Woke up super duper early to prepare for the tea ceremony. My mummy's super nervous lor cause it's her first time doing this! (See below)
Woke up super duper early to prepare f.or the tea. ceremony..
.PPutting the veil over the bride
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After much hassle, the bridegroom's finally here to fetch the bride! I prefer the wedding here, the bride has to stay in the room while the "jie mei"s have to create obstacles for the groom and his "xiong di"s to overcome. super re nao!
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My another cousin trying to get an angbao before he opens the door for the groom
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Finally the groom gets to leave the car, but he faces yet another big barrier (The 2 Men2 shen2 blocking the entrance)
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The groom's "bro" doing the push up on his behalf! and they dashed into the house!
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Of course it's not going to be easy, esp to overcome the obstacles that the bride's "sisters" set. They've to eat don't know how many bananas, raw vege & doufu, bittergourd juice, sing and say "I love you" in 10 different dialects/languages. Super high atmosphere!
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and finally with much perseverance, he succeeded!
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Family photo (u can play spot the diff with these pics haha)
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Tradition says that the bride's not allowed to go back to her house for 3 days but cause we're going back to SG soon, it is modified.
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They walked around the wedding car 1 round and back into the house and have to sit around the table like that, as though 3 days have passed. super fresh to us
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Thereafter, they went over to the groom's house for tea ceremony while we prepared for the wedding dinner. (For this part I'll prefer Sg's, you'll see why!)
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The couple yam seng-ing
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Standing @ the entrance to welcome people
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Small eyes unite! Super sunny so we couldn't open our poor eyes!
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& the couple is here! (2 mashi maro at the front of car, super cute!)

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Strangely, the limelight wasn't given to the couple, but instead those karaoke-rs! They even brought their on CDs there and blast into the mike

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& sth random haha!

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After 3 hours, the dinner's over. For the whole of that day, I feel like getting married too!!!!!! hahaha and cause she's pregnant, my maternal instinct kicks in as well!!!

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Back home, rotting session began again, and my best companion for the trip are the poker cards & I learnt a new game hohohoho. Have been trained into a poker addict!

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MY X'MAS EVE IS OVER JUST LIKE THAT :(:(

> Wednesday, December 26, 2007
PANGKOR 1B

After visiting the Fu Ling Gong, we went over to the beach. Super nice & clean! Look @ the sand, don't you wish you are the one standing on it haha


.The school behind is my parents' secondary school
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I want to bring the beach back to SG!

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My papa is NOT Lawrence hahhahaa

and when the sky is dark, we set off back home! It's the tradition to invite the friends/relatives etc for a feast on the wedding eve and when the clock struck 12, my cousin prepared herself for the "bai bai" ceremony

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& 1 day is finally over! I was super popular among the mosquitoes, I received 30 over kisses from them and my legs are full of their "lipstick stains" ! I'm still itching now!!!!!!

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Finally done with my outdated post, now presenting to you my Pangkor Island trip 1a!
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If you still remember, I went back there just last year but my another cousin is getting married, so no choice!
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Set off @ approx 9pm and reached lumut jetty @ about 6am, 9 super long hours!! But I slept like a log throughout, so reluctant to alight the bus somemore haha. After a 30min ferry ride, we finally arrived at our destination!
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Life at Pangkor island is so un-singapore.
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1) Living pace is so super slow and everybody are friends
2) Crime rate is almost zero okay, a super nice sexy zero
3) Freedom is 100% and stress is not in their dictionary.
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But also because of that, a snail seems to crawl even faster than time to me.
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After a long rotting period, my papa brought us to Taman Fu Ling Gong. Although we always always go there, it beats stoning at home and feeding the mosquitoes
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My papa's friend's son
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Trying to "absorb" of the fortune haha
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haha we zoomed the camera to almost the max to get this

It's acty a toilet. Must look carefully at the 2 ppl squatting. Censored by a star somemore haha
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Mini great wall of China

My sis's zodiac




& my zodiac! heehaw. Time for them to repaint

I'll be camouflaged if i stand beside the stone. Even when I stand here, I look like a part of the stone lor!


The Wu Gui(s)


Mummy acting sexy hahahhaa
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& my fats is bursting out of my shirt here haha! 5 meals a day @ pangkor, no joke no joke....








Sitting on the Great Wall of China hahha!!





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